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Tea and a Truth Biscuit: When Love Breaks You Open

Hand-drawn dog illustration symbolizing love and healing energy.

When my neighbor showed up with a hand-drawn portrait of Jake, it cracked my heart wide open in the best possible way. This Tea and a Truth Biscuit is a love letter to the pets, people, and moments that break us open, and a reminder that grief, gratitude, and love all belong.

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