Tantrum Like You Mean It: Sacred Rage, and the Path to Peace
Let’s break it down.:
Spiritual awakening isn’t always pretty.
Sometimes it’s primal. Sometimes it’s mascara-streaked. And sometimes, it’s you in your closet, sobbing into your laundry basket with a rage that could melt quartz.
Welcome to one of the most underrated healing arts: the sacred tantrum.
At Souls Healing Humanity, we don’t avoid the mess—we celebrate it. One of the six powerful platforms in Holistic Scaffolding™ is Triumphs and Tantrums, because both are worthy of your full, unapologetic presence.
We’ve all been taught to shut it down and keep it cute.
But here’s the truth bomb from my latest book Mystery and Manifestation:
“Throwing a fit is often the first honest thing we’ve done in years. We’ve been suppressing, smiling, ‘saging the space,’ and shoving our anger into some cute little shadow work journal. But suppression isn’t healing. It’s soul constipation.”
You’ve Been Taught to Be Too Damn Good
Good girls don’t scream.
Good mothers hold it together.
Good spiritual seekers smile through the chaos and manifest harder.
Bullsh*t.
That “goodness” is a straightjacket, sewn from your programming and stitched into your nervous system. And when life hits hard, the last thing you need is another postive affirmation.
You need permission to fall the f*ck apart.
Because tantrums are wisdom in motion.
They’re not regressions. They’re releases.
Enter: Closet Crying – A Wisdom Wand That Works
Let’s talk about one of my go-to Wisdom Wands when the storm hits hard: Closet Crying.
Why the closet? Because it’s private. It’s padded. It smells like your hopes, dreams and disasters. And it’s a judgment-free zone where you can fully unravel without the pressure to explain or “get it together.”
Closet Crying is sacred space.
It’s where the inner child gets to wail.
It’s where the wise woman says, “Let it all out, baby.”
It’s not about drama—it’s about release. It’s about letting your nervous system flush the bullsh*t you’ve been gripping way too tightly.*
Here’s how it works:
- Go in. Close the door.
- Sit on the floor. Bury your face in your clothes if you need to.
- Cry. Wail. Whisper. Sob. Curse. Whatever needs to come up—let it.
- Don’t try to fix it. Don’t try to make it spiritual. Just f*cking feel it.
And when you come out? You’ll be lighter. You’ll be clearer. You’ll be one layer closer to your True Self.
Effective tantruming is not weakness. It is so essential to actually processing your unresolved dramas and traumas that hold you back.
I love all you people.
Love and ((HUGS)),
Laura
