Oh, the stress of the holiday gift-giving season. The shopping pressure to purchase the perfect gifts, hunting for your child’s “must have” toy, obligatory gifts, and the stress over what to buy someone who “has everything.” Endless last-minute gift cards and emptying the Christmas savings account. (Do they still have those?)
Let’s press the button for a moment and allow me to share a Wisdom Nugget:
The best gift is you. A healthy, well-balanced, full of gratitude and unconditional love – YOU!
You may be thinking, great idea, Laura, but how in the world do I do that? There are many ways, but basically, it will require you to shed your bullsh*t, programming and conditioning to reveal your True Self – that is where unconditional love exists. Keep reading as I will let you know the fastest, most effective way to remove all those BS factors from your life.
Shifting Perspectives: Investing in Yourself
When you shed and let go of the programming that you “have to” buy someone a gift, that can be really powerful. Let me offer you a different reality. Instead of buying tons of gifts, take some of these funds and invest in yourself. Decide that this is the time when you will really put yourself! When you unconditionally love yourself, you will become a better mom, partner, and such that you so desperately want to be.
Gosh, I totally understand, as I spent many years being really unwell. Yes, I gave my daughter wonderful material gifts, but what she really needed was a stable, well-balanced mom, and that she did not receive. She and many others in my life at that time had to “survive“ the unwell me: – my roller coaster of emotions, my harsh judgments, my manipulation, my pity parties, my desperation, and my suicidal tendencies.
F*ckity-Do-Dah! It was not pretty. And even when I began to come into Alignment, with my True Self, I would still use my history to beat myself up, weaving additional squares for my guilt quilt. (Click Here to read Tea and a Truth Biscuit: The Guilt Quilt)
Holistic Scaffolding™: The Technology of Transformation
However, from where I am now, I can truly see that everything happened for me and for them as well. I am at peace now, and I want so much to share that framework, the technology of Holistic Scaffolding™ that helped me free myself. It is the fastest and most effective way to shed all that BS that is keeping you from living a life you love.
The Gift of You: Unconditional Self-Love Unleashed
In essence, the most meaningful, best gift you can offer is yourself. Imagine a version of you that’s healthy, balanced, and exuding gratitude and unconditional love. To achieve this, it’s crucial to let go of societal expectations and BS-conditioned responses. Redirecting energy from obligatory gift-giving towards self-investment can be amazingly transformative. I’ve experienced the impact firsthand, having navigated years of being unwell. The key is to embrace a journey of shedding the unnecessary programming and discovering your authentic, True Self. Through the transformative framework of Holistic Scaffolding™, I found peace and a profound desire to share this path with others. When you’re ready, I’m here to guide you toward unconditional self-love, enabling you to offer the best gift to everyone in your life – the gift of YOU!
I love all you people!
~Laura
